Homily for 4th Sunday of Ordinary Time Year C 2016
Jeremiah 1:4-5,17-19; 1 Corinthians 12:31-13:13; Luke 4:21-30
Introduction
If today's second reading sounded familiar,
it is probably because you have heard it read before, at several weddings. Because it speaks about love, it is the go-to
reading for many weddings.
This reading comes from Paul's first letter
to the Corinthian Church, the most troublesome of his daughter-Churches. This community had all kinds of divisions and
factions. Part of his answer to these
problems, is to teach them about love.
Scripture and Theology
But the kind of love that Paul is describing,
is not exactly the love we celebrate at weddings, but a much broader love.
The English language, with limited success
tries to express three quite different feelings with this one word
"love."
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First, we use "love"
to refer to that romantic feeling between a man and a woman, a desire and
longing based in physical attraction.
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Second, we speak of love to
refer to friendship and general affection, even our desire for knowledge, art
and other abstract things.
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But the love that Paul is
talking about is called by the Greek word, Agape.
Agape is "to will the good of another
and to act concretely on that desire," expecting nothing in return. It is more than erotic love; it is more than
philosophical love. This is the love
that God has for us, the kind of love that Jesus displayed so generously on the
cross, when he gave his life for the life of the world. He willed our good, he actively sought our
good and he gave it without expectation.
Paul dedicates several verses to describing this agape, this love.
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"Love is patient, love is
kind" Paul says. True love waits
and readily gives up righteous anger or outrage, for example towards someone
who is slow or imperfect, because such love wills the good of that other
person.
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Paul says "love is not
jealous." Someone once said: "when a friend of mine succeeds,
something in me dies." Does this
feeling sound awfully familiar? But as
Paul continues to say: love is not pompous, not inflated, not rude; love does
not seek its own interests. Selfishness
and love do not go together; selflessness is the true quality of love.
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Paul goes on: "love is not
quick-tempered, does not brood over injury." If we will the good of the
other, we cannot hold grudges. We cannot
hold on to old wounds for decades, opening the scars once in a while to brood over
them. Agape requires forgiveness and letting
bygones be bygones.
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"Love does not rejoice
over wrongdoing, but rejoices with truth" says Paul. The Germans have a word for this; schadenfreude is the morbid revelling in
the pain of others. Love cannot rejoice
at another's misfortune, even the pain of our enemies. Jesus already teaches as much when he says
"love your enemies, and do good to
those who persecute you" (Lk. 6:27).
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Paul ends his description of
love by saying: "love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all
things and endures all things." Such
love does not pick and choose what is convenient, but what serves the good of
another.
Besides describing the kind of qualities
that make up Christian love, Paul also compares agape with the spiritual gifts,
especially since the Corinthians were fighting over whose gifts were more
important.
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He says: "If I speak in human and angelic tongues, but
do not have love, I am a resounding gong or a clashing cymbal." In other words, even spiritual gifts like the
gift of tongues, the gifts of prophecy, understanding and knowledge, mean
nothing, if not used for the good of another.
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Paul goes on to say: "If I have all faith so as to move mountains,
but do not have love, I am nothing."
Even faith, profound belief, does not count, if such belief does not
will the good of others. This can
happen, for example, when of our deep faith goes to our heads and we automatically
exclude others from God's love: the Protestants, Jews, and especially the
Muslims.
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"If I give away everything I own, and if I hand my body over so that I
may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing," Paul says. Imagine that!
Even charitable giving and martyrdom don't count if they are done for
selfish reasons like showing off. In
true love, like Jesus, one has to give something of theirs, without expecting anything
in return.
Christian Life
It is interesting that the reasons for
which Paul wrote this letter, the problems of division in the Corinthian
community are still with us today.
1.
In the first four chapters of
First Corinthians, the problem is cliques and camps with some people saying, "I
am for Paul," and others "I am for Apollos," instead of "I
am for Christ." Today we say: "I
am for Pope Francis," "I am for Pope Benedict." Or "I am for Father so-and-so" and
not "Father-so-so."
2.
In Chapter 5 of the same letter,
the problem is the community's failure to deal with a church member who is
committing incest. Aren't we guilty of
similar indifference to the promiscuous license of our society today, even in
small things like a lack of modesty in dress?
3.
In Chapter 6, church members
are taking each other to pagan courts, participating in religious prostitution,
and in Chapter 10 in pagan sacrifices.
Again aren't we often guilty of similar sins, when we substitute the
values and practices of Christ, with the pagan ones of society, when we allow
secular courts and the media, rather than Christ, to dictate our moral values?
4.
In Chapter 11 the problem is segregation
at the Eucharistic celebration,. between
rich and poor. Thankfully, gone are the
days when different classes and races were assigned different seats at Mass. And yet we still have all kinds of subtle
divisions in the Body of Christ even today!
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Finally, in Chapter 12 the
Corinthians are fighting over which spiritual gifts are more important; tongues,
prophecy, knowledge? Sadly, we too do
this when we jealously protect our turf in the parish or church group. Our society promotes this attitude, at
school, at work – the zero-some game that always seeks to put down others, so
that I can be lifted up, impressing whom we can, destroying whom we must. For all these problems, love is the answer.
Conclusion
St. Paul concludes his lesson on love by
saying: "Love never fails;" and then "So faith, hope, love
remain, these three; but the greatest of these is love."
In other words, at the end of time, because
we shall see God as he is, all other good things will pass away, but not love.
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The spiritual gifts of
prophecy, tongues and knowledge are only tools to help us see and know God. Paul says: "At present we see indistinctly, as in a mirror, but then face to
face. At present I know partially; then
I shall know fully, as I am fully known." We will not need them in heaven.
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Even the two theological
virtues of faith and hope will no longer be needed; when I am seeing God face to face, there is no
more need for faith; when I am seeing God face to face in heaven, there is no
more need for hope.
But in heaven, love will still be needed,
because God is love and because life with God means love.
As the Baltimore Catechism taught us: "God made me to know Him, to love Him, and to
serve Him in this world, and to be happy with Him forever in the next." That's why we must start loving while we
still can learn.